The Peaceful Parent

Here’s why 20 families from around the world regularly meet online to become proud, peaceful and confident parents who raise calm and happy children.

Hey, its Jen here

creator of The Peaceful Parent.

Before you read any further I want to check that you and I are on the same page about something…and it’s this…

Helping your child become happy, calm and confident isn’t just about them changing… it’s about you doing some personal work so that you feel happy and calm too…

So that you can then support your child in their big emotions.

If you agree with this, you’re in the right place… this letter is for you and it contains an important invitation.

Let me tell you a quick story that will show you the kind of parents that join The Peaceful Parent…

Hannah met with me for a private consultation on zoom about her little girl.

As she sat there, her shoulders looked like she was carrying the weight of the world on them.

About halfway into the session she just burst into tears…

…she described how stressed she had been feeling and how everything was getting on top of her…

…the pressure of lockdown home life had been mounting up for weeks…

(The problems had always been there, but lockdown had brought them up to the surface…)

Hannah went onto describe how stressful their home environment was…

…she was super worried about getting her daughter ready for school…

…because she knew it would be difficult to get her to wear her uniform…

… for months she’d only worn the same dress again and again…

…she refused to wear underwear…

…and was uncontrollable…having meltdowns at the prospect of putting clothes on…

Along with this, her little girl was up all night unless she lay with her for hours…

Bare in mind…Hannah was a loving Mummy with some great parenting skills already!

But she recognised she couldn’t do it alone and she was happy to ask for outside advise.

Plus , she knew that there was work to do on herself to be the best mummy she could be and to feel good about herself…

For her daughter to feel good , Hannah had to feel good.

So, I taught Hannah a powerful parenting technique and showed her why her little girl was acting in this way.

Once Hannah began to see what was really going on… the penny began to drop!

Soon after Hannah joined The Peaceful Parent.

“My daughter had a great day at school and she was open to the idea of wearing the school uniform! She is also putting underwear on…we are SO happy!”

It didn’t stop there…

Things got better and better for Hannah…

After spending just an hour a week inside The Peaceful Parent, she shared this message in our group:

“Tonight my daughter went to bed and fell asleep on her own for the first time in 6 months, without one of us being upstairs with her! This is a huge breakthrough, and we feel so happy, We understand that things may change and she may need us again to feel safe and loved, however for the first time tonight she felt that she was capable of doing it on her own. I couldn’t be prouder of her, and of ourselves. We have worked so hard to achieve this and it’s so lovely to see some positive changes. We truly are a much calmer family with much more peace in our lives.”

This is exactly why I created The Peaceful Parent. And what can happen when you put the method’s I’m going to share with you to work in your family.

So, now that you’ve heard that story, let’s talk about you. 😊

Hannah’s story isn’t unique and chances are if you’re reading this page, you’ve got some version of this going on at home too.

It may be better or worse than Hannah’s situation but the bottom line is that it’s affecting how you all feel as a family.

Our members have a range of things going on with their kids that make them want to join us, here’s a few:

Their child’s anxiety is sky high and they feel at their wits end with the daily meltdowns and tears.

Their son rages with anger and it’s affecting their school so much that teachers are constantly on the phone to them about their behaviour.

Their daughter’s anxiety is so high that it’s impacting their relationship and both partners are blaming one another.

They’ve recently experienced divorce or something similar and want to make sure that they are setting their kids up for happy lives despite the disruption at home.

They’ve read countless books and been to play therapy or therapy themselves and still struggle to make real changes with their child’s behaviour.

They are lay by their child’s bed for hours because they won’t settle to sleep on their own.

Their child is clingy and won’t let their parent out of their sight and they have meltdowns every morning about going to school.

They recognise that their child is highly sensitive and want to equip themselves with how to parent them with this personality trait.

And here’s the thing, you’ve probably already tried a bunch of other stuff…

…visited a number of psychologists or counsellors
… tried reading the books
…watched my videos on Instagram.
…inside parenting Facebook groups
And I’m guessing that you’ve reached out to your children’s teachers to get their input too.

This endless search for solutions gets time consuming AND expensive!

Here’s the truth…

You and I both know this isn’t going to get better on its own by reading a few books, watching my Instagram lives or picking up a random tip here and there.

Like all the important things in life, raising calm happy kids requires deep work… over time.

I mean think about it … your health- You don’t get fit and healthy by eating fruit once a month or going to a fitness class once every 2 months! 😉

Your relationships your relationship with your partner didn’t develop by having just one good night out and chatting by phone every 2 weeks.

Your career you don’t have a great career from doing a project well once and never reading a book or studying anything.

Your car your car doesn’t run on magical gas, it needs to be filled up at the station on a regular basis and requires an MOT and service every year.

You get my point. 😊

The really meaningful things in life take ongoing work and usually some outside help and advise.

And that’s exactly why I created The Peaceful Parent.

The grand aim of The Peaceful Parent:

Calm, emotionally connected families who know how to raise confident and calm children.

So look…here’s how important it is to get this sorted out now and to not put it off…let me take you a few years down the road to show you what could happen if things don’t change now…

Not addressing this means that your relationship with your child, when they turn into a teenager, could really suffer.

They potentially will find a therapist or coach themselves as an adult and be told that most of their anxieties stemmed from their childhood years and this could really be damaging to your relationship.

Research shows that many people resort to addictions when they have emotional scars that haven’t been healed. Your child could head down the route of drug abuse, alcohol abuse, toxic relationships or some other form of addiction that numbs out their pain.

And because of all of this…because this work is SO important…critically important, I created The Peaceful Parent.

Because I want to guide you to be able to avoid these things.

Truth is we both know life isn’t all roses and sunshine but it isn’t supposed to be filled with DAILY struggle and pain either!

So here’s how it works…

The Peaceful Parent is a six month program.

And when you join, you get access to a “hot line” to me Monday-Friday for any challenges that come up during the week.

What this means is, you’ll only ever be a message or phone call away from feeling supported. You won’t feel alone in your challenges.

Currently we have 20 amazing women in this group. 

20 families working to become calm, and happy and be the best family they can be.

So, I figured rather than me try and tell you why The Peaceful Parent is so good, (I’m obviously biased!), I’d let them do the talking…

“This group is a source of knowledge and support that I never imagined could exist through social media. Before joining in I was walking blind to nowhere. Now I am aware of myself and who I am and what I want to do with my life and how. I feel grateful to have found Jen “by coincidence” on the internet searching for content that had nothing to do with this.”

“It’s my emotional support group. I never knew that I needed it until I had it. Now it’s a lifeline.”

“This group has been a blessing. I have learned so much about myself within this Forum. I became comfortable with myself and was able to express my feelings without being afraid of being judged, criticized, misunderstood, or ignored. It is a safe place where you can find GENUINE support and acceptance from its members. In the beginning, I doubted to join this group as I did not like to express my feelings to others specially through Facebook to a bunch of strangers. However, I do not regret being part of this wonderful group as I have obtained more support here than with my friends and family. ”

“This group keeps me in check with myself. It provides a space for me to share my feelings, learn for my emotional growth and be accepted as I am. Holds me accountable to keep working on things that make me happy. It is a supportive community of women and we are all working to better our lives and those around us!”

“This has become a sacred space for me not to just learn how to make a difference for my son, but for me to grow, learn and keep myself accountable to being the best I can be. Not being afraid of making mistakes and taking me through baby steps to being more aware and knowing I am loveable and worthy.”

And if you would like to apply to join this high level groups of exceptional parents we’ve got a few spots available!

You might be wondering at this stage how I came to be doing this…

…helping people like yourself; down to earth Mums right the way through to Hollywood actresses…especially as I am not currently a parent myself…

…and that often surprises a lot of people, given that I have helped hundreds of families change their lives in the last ten years …

…here’s how it happened…

For as early as I could work, I wanted to be around kids!

I did my first work experience placement in a primary school and there was something about seeing the carefree and joy of childhood that really spoke to me…

…I had a stressful childhood myself, so it was nice as an adult to see children feeling happy and relaxed…

…one of the first roles that I embarked on was as a support teacher in a primary school; supporting a boy with autism…

…the wonderful thing about that role was that rather than being at the front of that class, teaching, I was able to sit to the side and watch how the children interacted and engaged…

…some of the things that I saw were things like a little boy banging his head on the floor during circle time…I saw how the teachers weren’t equipped to deal with that.

…I would see when we would play games as a class, another little boy would cry and drop down on to the floor each time the game didn’t go his way…

…the teachers tried to reason with him and encourage him but again…it struck me that they didn’t know how to respond in way that helped him calm.

…and I’ll never forget the 5 year old boy who was already saying “ I can’t do this work and I’m not as good as everyone else…” and I remember feeling amazed that at his age he was already doubting himself and comparing himself to his friends!

…I was always curious about what was going on for these children and passionate about getting to the bottom of it…

…the most extreme example of my experience with these children was when I was asked to support a child a with autism…

…his Mother was enthusiastic about me taking the role and I was chosen specifically because I had NO prior experience with autism…

…his mother thought I would be much more open when working with her son and that I would be less likely to put him in a ‘box’ so to speak or label him…

…I could that she knew her son struggled with his anger (and she was seeking professional help) but she didn’t want him to be labelled …she wanted him to have a happy childhood in school and be just like the other kids…

…one afternoon, I was in the playground with my class and he started pushing me.

…he’s pushing me and pushing me and screaming at me to tell another child off because they had done something to upset him…

…and in that moment I was trying to reason with him but I felt completely out of my depth…

… I loved caring for this child and I did my best at the time…

…but I kept misunderstanding his communication and behaviour.

…I could feel myself getting triggered by his anger…

…I felt embarrassed in front of the other teachers and worried what they would think of me…

…I desperately wanted to support him but I just didn’t have all the answers…

…I wanted to get to the bottom of how to really help kids when they are feeling deep emotions…

…and I remember the day when this came to a head…

… I was clearing up at the end of the school day and I overheard a conversation between a Mummy and the class teacher…

… (I remember how embarrassed and nervous parents used to feel when the teacher called them in as they would get called in front of other parents)…

…so Tommy’s mum comes in sheepishly, balancing a baby on her hip and trying to contend with the baby whilst listening to the teacher tell her yet again that Tommy had been misbehaving…

…and I’ll never forget these words as she desperately plead with the teacher…

…“What can I do at home? …

…What else can I do?”…

In that moment I knew what I wanted to do!

I knew that so many parents were desperate for advise and solutions…and nobody was giving it to them!

… I wanted to empower parents to not lean on professionals who didn’t always have answers…but to find their own solutions!

…I left the formal academic system and went on a 10 year learning journey, studying cutting edge psychological methods and that’s exactly how I came to do the work that I do today.

So here’s who The Peaceful Parent is perfect for …

You see yourself in your child and your child’s anxiety or lack in confidence triggers your own painful memories from when you were a child…

You know you get angry and want to stop being the mom who yells at her kids all the time…

You worry that you’ll ruin your child’s life…

You feel guilty about not being the best you can be as a parent because you’ve seen first hand the damage that can be done by your own parent’s mistakes…

You worry history will be repeated- you don’t want to parent the way you were parented but you hear your own parents voice coming out of your own mouth when you speak to your child…

You dread public meltdowns and what to do or say when they happen…

You feel like you’re on a different page to your partner when it comes to parenting and you hate the arguments that occur because of it…

You feel drained…

You feel overwhelmed…

You feel at your wits end…

This is what you need to know…

You’re not alone….
…and it’s not your fault.

Most of the adults that I coach haven’t had a positive role model to look up to when it comes to parenting…

…most people’s parents were emotionally checked out or filled with anger…

…no wonder you then struggle what to say and do when your own child is melting down!

But you are NOT alone!

…so many parents feel like they want to parent differently than the way they were raised…

But here’s the thing…

…most parents don’t do anything about it.

Here’s what happens to my clients when they start putting what I share with them to work…with their children and their families…

“I think you are wonderful! I got more out of your IGTV on anxiety than I had in 10 years of therapy!!!”

L.A Baker (Actress who played Ellen in Will + Grace)

“I was nervous at first to invest in one of your programs because I have read so much and spent so much time understanding child development that I was afraid I would only hear things I have already known. That was absolutely not the case. I am SO thankful I invested in more than one of your programs and coaching because it’s helped me as a parent and more importantly as a person- more than any of the books I’ve read ever could”

Mandie Nault, Canada

“Jen’s wisdom is exceptional! Truly! She is a very intuitive coach and teaches from the soul to the soul. I can not think of a sentence she’s said that hasn’t resonated with me! She is a gift to the world of parenting and highly sensitive people and I’ll be forever grateful our paths crossed.”

Radelle – Founder of Behold
The Connection – @beholdtheconnection

“My son had been angry for months and I couldn’t understand what was going on for him. The teachers were calling me almost daily and I always felt anxious and had headaches. As Jen taught me how to speak to him in a new way, he immediately opened up to me about how he had been feeling all those months prior. I feel so much more empowered now as a parent, knowing that I don’t need to rely on the teachers or other professionals to tell me what is going on with my child. I am now in a position to help other parents learn how to connect with their children and have become somebody that others come to when they are struggling. This group has been a blessing.”

Lucia Ohuche, United States

“There’s a way that Jen communicates, that makes you feel validated, accepted and understood no matter where you are at along your parenting journey, she speaks in a way that restores your dignity and confidence. Thank you, Jen. Not only for what you have given me, but what you have given our family! The sun rises on my heart -the literal sense, as I’m writing this now… after a coaching call with Jen. Thank you for hearing me, thank you for helping me regain my confidence, thank you for your humour.

I look forward to going on to parent in a way that continually restores my children’s dignity and sense of self-worth every day and makes even their littlest worries feel validated and understood, just as you have shown me. A fresh reminder of how I desired to parent when I first set out on this journey of motherhood but got discouraged along the way.


Such gratitude I feel! I look forward to continually growing and learning so that I can continue to be the best possible support for my 3 children who are so deserving of love, I pray they will experience and feel the same way that you have made us feel.”

Hannah- Australia

I’m so grateful for Jen and her Peaceful Parent. Right from the beginning Jen challenged me to really think about how I felt as a child. Asking me questions that I’d never been asked before. -Did you feel understood as a child?- Well my answer was no and so I decided to come on board to figure out why and how I could heal that part of me mad become the parent I wanted to be but didn’t know how.

Then on to learning how to pass this new knowledge onto my children. How do I support them to feel loved and understood? How do I create an environment where they get to be themselves …discover themselves….and feel all their different feelings and emotions while knowing that through it all I am by their side loving them and giving understanding and acceptance.

This is Jens gift and it takes time, practice and commitment. Before Jen I tried to fix our problems all the time and it was exhausting. Now I have an inner peace with parenting that I didn’t know I could have. Now I have conversations with my children that I didn’t have before. Now I fix less and love more.

Love Myriah

Here’s all the details about what you get when you join…

THE PEACEFUL PARENT

This is a 6 month program… (some parents choose to stay longer…😉 )

MODULES + BONUSES

The Peaceful Parent is made up of 3 elements

  1. Cutting edge psychological methods
  2. Weekly calls and advice
  3. Open access (for when challenges come up)

When you join you’ll get immediate access to my full library of cutting edge methods and techniques that you can put to work immediately to help your child.

Every week we jump on a zoom call so that you have somewhere to go to calm your mind and get answers before things mounts up.

We do this every week because it takes a village to raise a child…and this is your village! 😊

You also get my Ongoing personal support in the Facebook group. Type your questions in real time and I’ll respond to you with guidance specifically for you. This means that your problems don’t mount up and you can avoid arguing with your partner because you want him to help you solve it (when he doesn’t have the answers either).

…I’ll also be giving you a few of my best shortcuts to help you remember the most important things to do with your child so that they don’t end up in meltdowns every day. This means that you can claw back some of your time that you used to spend on dealing with their meltdowns and anger

Plus…

When you join, you and I will kick it all off with a private 30 min call together, to get right to the root of your specific challenges.

(You can also choose to save this call for a time when you might really need it during these 6 months if you prefer.)

By the end of the six months you will feel empowered as a parent, knowing exactly what say and do when your child is angry or anxious…

…life will feel very different in your home…

…it will be…quieter…

…you will see your children playing together, happily…

…you will gain back some hours at the end of your day because your child is settling to sleep by themselves…

…you will see how your child is quicker to ‘come back’ from their emotions and calm themselves down…

…you will hear your child more easily express to you in words how it is that they are feeling instead of going straight to anger and meltdowns…

…you will find way more time to yourself to read a book or just relax and listen to a podcast or TV program…

…you will wake up feeling relaxed and without a headache or exhausted every day…

…you will be laughing with your partner again and enjoying your relationship without needing constant conversations about your child…

…you will hear the teacher saying to you that they have seen a change in how your child behaves…and they’ll possibly ask you what you are doing differently at home…

So, let’s talk about the cost.

If you wanted to book me privately (one to one) and have this much access to my help and advice for a six month period it would normally cost $12,000.00

When you join The Peaceful Parent you’re not going to pay anything near that…in fact you’re not even going to be paying anywhere near half of that!

Your one-off investment to completely change the way that your family life feels at home and go from chaos and arguments to greater peace and calm is $1800.00 USD.

And if you want to split that into 6 monthly payments of just $300.00, that is an option too!

So look…if you got this far I would love to discuss working with you!

We are taking new applications right now.

Go ahead and click the button you can see below to drop me an email and I can’t wait to speak to you soon about you and your child. 😊

Sneak peek behind the scenes of the start of a group coaching call

L.A Baker

Actress who played Ellen in Will and Grace

“I think you are wonderful! I got more out of your IGTV on anxiety than I had in 10 years of therapy!!!”

Kelli Schoefer

There is always growth in learning how to handle conflicts and that’s why myself and my husband keep doing this work, so that we can approach each other and our children with love.

I used to just react to my son, but now we can sit on the couch together and I can see that his behaviour isn’t about me. This means that I can tell him that I am here for him and that I am listening to him. Before we worked with you, I am sure I was not reacting in a way that made him feel that we were on the same team.
My husband and I have learnt things from you like recognising the tone in our voice and the expression on our faces and that has benefitted us a lot!
The atmosphere in our home has changed so much this last 6 months, that recently when I raised my voice and got angry, our son looked surprised! This used to be our old normal, but it isn’t anymore and that stood out to him! That was huge!

Jacqueline Whyte

The course made such a difference in our lives.

After completing the course I continued to follow the processes. I had a thirst to learn more, so I commenced the Peaceful Pathway coaching in September 2019 allowing me to share, learn and grow in a supportive community who are also making a difference in their families lives.

Both the course and the peaceful pathway has helped me to have greater awareness of my own sensitivities and my son’s.

It helped stop his nervous and constant throat clearing within a week.
With increased anxiety he started to wet the bed. Soon that stopped after a couple of weeks.
He is also experiencing improvement in his coordination everyday
Greater focus at swimming, and so his technique is improving.
He is more engaged in his learning, and gets excited when he has done well.
He is starting to speak about how he is feeling, and apologizes when he thinks he is wrong.
His creativity is growing daily, as he chooses to draw and paint on his own

Being on The Peaceful Pathway, I am learning to be more accepting, ensure that I have my self-care routine in place, explore my strengths, learn new things to share with my family and to take one step at a time.

Mandie Nault

“I was nervous at first to invest in one of your programs because I have read so much and spent so much time understanding child development that I was afraid I would only hear things I have already known. That was absolutely not the case. I am SO thankful I invested in more than one of your programs and coaching because it’s helped me as a parent and more importantly as a person- more than any of the books I’ve read ever could”

Myriah

I’m so grateful for Jen and her Peaceful Pathway. Right from the beginning Jen challenged me to really think about how I felt as a child. Asking me questions that I’d never been asked before. -Did you feel understood as a child?- Well my answer was no and so I decided to come on board to figure out why and how I could heal that part of me mad become the parent I wanted to be but didn’t know-how.

Then on to learning how to pass this new knowledge onto my children. How do I support them to feel loved and understood? How do I create an environment where they get to be themselves …discover themselves….and feel all their different feelings and emotions while knowing that through it all I am by their side loving them and giving understanding and
acceptance.

This is Jens gift and it takes time, practice and commitment. Before Jen I tried to fix our problems all the time and it was exhausting. Now I have an inner peace with parenting
that I didn’t know I could have. Now I have conversations with my children that I didn’t have before. Now I fix less and love more.

Lucia Ohuche

“My son had been angry for months and I couldn’t understand what was going on for him. The teachers were calling me almost daily and I always felt anxious and had headaches. As Jen taught me how to speak to him in a new way, he immediately opened up to me about how he had been feeling all those months prior. I feel so much more empowered now as a parent, knowing that I don’t need to rely on the teachers or other professionals to tell me what is going on with my child. I am now in a position to help other parents learn how to connect with their children and have become somebody that others come to when they are struggling. This group has been a blessing.”

Radelle

Founder of Behold The Connection – @beholdtheconnection

“Jen’s wisdom is exceptional! Truly! She is a very intuitive coach and teaches from the soul to the soul. I can not think of a sentence she’s said that hasn’t resonated with me! She is a gift to the world of parenting and highly sensitive people and I’ll be forever grateful our paths crossed.”